Are You Choosing a Partner or a Project? Quiz

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Are You Choosing a Partner or a Project? Quiz

Are you choosing a partner for who they are, or for who you believe they could become? This quiz explores your relationship patterns, expectations, boundaries, and attraction to potential. Your answers can reveal whether you’re building a relationship with a real person or becoming invested in a project of change and improvement. Answer honestly as there are no right or wrong answers.

Which statement best describes what you expect from a long-term romantic relationship?

When a relationship feels difficult, what thought is most likely to keep you invested in it?

If a partner refuses to change one habit you dislike, how are you most likely to respond?

When you meet someone with obvious flaws, what most strongly shapes your interest in them?

When giving relationship advice, which goal sounds most natural to you for your partner?

If your partner has a different lifestyle from yours, what would you be most likely to do?

What happens when your partner makes progress toward a goal you strongly wanted for them?

How much of your attraction depends on imagining the person becoming more confident or successful?

If your partner stayed exactly the same for five years, how would you honestly feel about staying?

Looking at your dating history, what pattern best describes why you stayed with difficult partners?

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